Hello guys, I need so much your help, please tell me what to do! I was dating this guy, divorced, he was alone, he was nice to me, and everything was wonderful, I fell in love with him. We broke up and I didn't see him for a few months. Lately I found him again, and he told me his sob story of how he came back to his wife and kids because she was having hard times with money.

Anyway we started seeing each other again, but now he keeps saying that he has to be there for his wife and kids and that he sleeps in the same bed with her, but they don't make love. He says he doesn't want her to find out he has somebody else right now. I am so confused about what to do. How do I forget about him and how do I find out the truth. And we work in the same place. It's been terrible lately. My head is full of doubts. Please help me.

Cut off the relationship right away. All you are doing is letting him have his cake and eat it too. He is still attached to his wife and unless the day comes when he is divorced from her entirely, you will never have a satisfying relationship with this man. It will be tough to break it off completely given you care about him and you work with him, but in the long run you will be so much better off if you do. Keep in mind that you probably like him even more because he is unavailable.

As a rule never get involved with a married man again. They rarely leave their wife permanently for the woman they are having an affair with. And the fact that they are cheating in the first place is a sign that they lack integrity. If he has it in him to cheat on the woman he is married to, you have to assume he might cheat on you at some point too. And of course keep in mind the old fashioned golden rule - never do to another woman what you would not want her to do to you.